The term "average" can mean a number of different things:
The "mean" where you add up the values and divide by the number of them: the "mean" of {1, 3, 3, 3, 6, 8} is (1+ 3+ 3+ 3+ 6+ 8)/6= 24/6= 4.
The "median" which is the "middle" of all the numbers. Here, there are 6 numbers. The "middle" is between the third and fourth numbers. Since both third and fourth numbers are 3, that is 3.
The "mode" which is the most common number. Here, that is 3.
The "midrange" which is simply half way between the smallest and largest numbers. Here the "range" is "1 to 8" so the "midrange" is (1+ 8)/2= 4.5.
The "root mean square" which is the square root of the mean of all the square. The mean of the squares is (1+ 9+ 9+ 9+ 36+ 64)/6= 128/6= 21.3. The square root of that is 4.6.
The "average speed" could be any one of those, though most likely the "mean" as that is the most commonly used "average". The "root mean speed" specifically uses the last.
